
“Those who control their passions do so because their passions are weak enough to be controlled.”
Book I, epistle ii, line 62
Epistles (c. 20 BC and 14 BC)
Ira furor brevis est: animum rege: qui nisi paret imperat.
“Those who control their passions do so because their passions are weak enough to be controlled.”
Interview with Don Swaim (1987) http://wiredforbooks.org/tonimorrison/
Context: Anger... it's a paralyzing emotion... you can't get anything done. People sort of think it's an interesting, passionate, and igniting feeling — I don't think it's any of that — it's helpless... it's absence of control — and I need all of my skills, all of the control, all of my powers — and I need clarity, in order to write — and anger doesn't provide any of that — I have no use for it whatsoever. I can feel melancholy, and I can feel full of regret, but anger is something that is useful to the people who watch it... it's not useful to me.
“If you can't control your peanut butter, you can't expect to control your life.”
Source: The Authoritative Calvin and Hobbes: A Calvin and Hobbes Treasury
“You have two choices: to control your mind or to let your mind control you.”
Source: Veronika Decides to Die (1998)
“You don't always control your circumstances, but you can always control your response.”
Source: Call Sign Chaos: Learning to Lead (2019), p. 6
De Abaitua interview (1998)
Context: The magician to some degree is trying to drive him or herself mad in a controlled setting, within controlled laws. You ask the protective spirits to look after you, or whatever. This provides a framework over an essentially amorphous experience. You are setting up your terms, your ritual, your channels – but you deliberately stepping over the edge into the madness. You are not falling over the edge, or tripping over the edge.
When I was a kid, I used to go to the seaside and play in the waves. The thing you learn about waves, is that when you see a big one coming, you run towards it. You try and get out of its way and you’ll end up twenty yards up the beach covered in scratches. Dive into it, and then you can get behind it. You get on top it, you won’t be hurt. It is counter-intuitive, the impulse is to run away, but the right thing to do is to plunge into it deliberately, and be in control when you do it. Magic is a response to the madness of the twentieth century.
“You must gain control over your money or the lack of it will forever control you.”