“Parents teach children discipline for two different, indeed diametrically opposed, reasons: to render the child submissive to them and to make him independent of them. Only a self-disciplined person can be obedient; and only such a person can be autonomous.”

— Thomas Szasz

The Untamed Tongue: A Dissenting Dictionary (1990)

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Hungarian psychiatrist 1920–2012

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