“Parents who discipline their child by discussing the consequences of their actions produce children who have better moral development, compared to children whose parents use authoritarian methods and punishment.”

—  Simon Baron-Cohen

Source: Zero Degrees of Empathy: A New Theory of Human Cruelty

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