“Pain is not love. Love flowers; love gives without taking; love is serene and calm.”
Becoming Light: Poems New and Selected (1991)
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“One can give without loving, but one cannot love without giving”
A Chance to Die.The life and Legacy of Amy Carmichael, Elisabeth Elliot, Revell, 1987.

My Day (1935–1962)
Context: It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know. We all know people who are so much afraid of pain that they shut themselves up like clams in a shell and, giving out nothing, receive nothing and therefore shrink until life is a mere living death. (1 April 1939)

“We may often give without love, but we can never love without giving.”
Quotations from Gurudev’s teachings, Chinmya Mission Chicago

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The Tragedy of Woman's Emancipation (1906)

“Flowers are lovely; love is flower-like;
Friendship is a sheltering tree”
"Youth and Age", st. 2 (1823–1832).
Context: Flowers are lovely; love is flower-like;
Friendship is a sheltering tree;
Oh the joys that came down shower-like,
Of friendship, love, and liberty,
Ere I was old!

From Anacreon, vii. Gold; reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919).

“We love the beautiful and serene, but we have a feeling as deep as love for the terrible and dark.”