“Mel thought real love was nothing less than spiritual love. He'd said he'd spent five years in a seminary before quitting to go to medical school. He said he still looked back on those years in the seminary as the most important years of his life.”

— Raymond Carver, book What We Talk About When We Talk About Love

What We Talk About When We Talk About Love (1981)

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