“Let us learn to show our friendship for a man when he is alive and not after he is dead.”

Source: The Great Gatsby (1925), ch. 9

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American novelist and screenwriter 1896–1940

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“They remind us that he is a great man, and that the largest of us are very small ones. Let this be granted. But "a living dog is better than a dead lion." Judge Douglas, if not a dead lion, for this work, is at least a caged and toothless one.”

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