“What a pity that in life we only get our lessons when they are of no use to us.”
Oscar Wilde Lady Windermere's Fan
Lady Windermere, Act IV
Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)
Experience the wit and wisdom of Oscar Wilde through his most famous quotes. From the importance of love and forgiveness to the rebellion within every woman, delve into the captivating world of Wilde's words and be inspired to embrace your own unique voice.
Oscar Wilde was an Irish poet and playwright who gained popularity in London in the late 19th century. Known for his epigrams and plays, Wilde achieved great success with works such as The Picture of Dorian Gray. He was also infamous for his conviction for gross indecency, resulting in imprisonment and ultimately, his early death at the age of 46.
Born to Anglo-Irish parents in Dublin, Wilde showed exceptional talent and intellect from a young age. After studying at prestigious universities, he became associated with aestheticism and immersed himself in literary pursuits. With his sharp wit and extravagant style, Wilde became a prominent figure in social circles. He expressed his artistic ideas through various literary endeavors, including poetry, lectures, and journalism.
Wilde’s fascination with art led him to write dramas that combined aesthetic details with broader societal themes. Although faced with obstacles such as the prohibition of biblical subjects on English stages, he proved resilient and went on to become one of the most successful playwrights of his time. However, his fame took a dramatic turn when he prosecuted the Marquess of Queensberry for libel due to their connection through Lord Alfred Douglas. The trial resulted not only in Wilde dropping charges but also in his arrest and conviction for homosexual acts.
While serving his sentence, Wilde penned De Profundis, a reflective letter that delves into his spiritual journey during his trials. Upon release, he fled to France where he wrote what would be his last work - The Ballad of Reading Gaol - an introspective poem inspired by the harsh realities of prison life. Wilde never returned to Ireland or Britain before his untimely demise. Despite enduring personal turmoil and societal backlash, Oscar Wilde left an indelible mark on literature and continues to be remembered as one of history's most influential writers.

“What a pity that in life we only get our lessons when they are of no use to us.”
Oscar Wilde Lady Windermere's Fan
Lady Windermere, Act IV
Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Jack, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
“The note of the perfect personality is not rebellion, but peace.”
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Lord Goring, Act III
An Ideal Husband (1895)
“Something was dead in each of us,
And what was dead was Hope.”
Oscar Wilde book The Ballad of Reading Gaol
Pt. III, st. 29
The Ballad of Reading Gaol (1898)
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Lady Bracknell, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891) <br class="br">Source: Wilde, Oscar, (1891 / 1912) The Soul of Man Under Socialism, London, Arthur L. Humphreys. Retrieved from University of California Libraries Archive.org https://archive.org 26 February 2018 https://archive.org/details/soulofmanunderso00wildiala
“No gentleman ever has any money.”
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Algernon, Act II
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
The Critic as Artist (1891), Part I
“In married life, three is company, and two is none.”
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Algernon, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
“In examinations the foolish ask questions that the wise cannot answer.”
Oscar Wilde book Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young
Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young (1894)
Oscar Wilde Lady Windermere's Fan
Mrs. Erlynne, Act IV
Lady Windermere's Fan (1892)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
“I hear her hair has turned quite gold from grief”
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Algernon, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
“Indifference is the revenge the world takes on mediocrities.”
Oscar Wilde Vera; or, The Nihilists
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
“Lo! with a little rod
I did but touch the honey of romance —
And must I lose a soul's inheritance?”
Helas! http://www.victorianweb.org/authors/wilde/helas.html, l. 12-14 (1881)
“When a voice behind me whispered low,
"That fellow's got to swing."”
Oscar Wilde book The Ballad of Reading Gaol
Pt. I, st. 4
The Ballad of Reading Gaol (1898)
“There is always more brass than brains in an aristocracy.”
Oscar Wilde Vera; or, The Nihilists
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
"Oscariana" (1907), Complete Works, p. 32 https://books.google.com/books?id=-CtXAAAAYAAJ&pg=PA32
“Fashion is what one wears oneself. What is unfashionable is what other people wear.”
Lord Goring, Act III
An Ideal Husband (1895)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
“Ah! That must be Aunt Augusta. Only relatives, or creditors, ever ring in that Wagnerian manner.”
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Algernon, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
“I don't at all like knowing what people say of me behind my back. It makes me far too conceited.”
Lord Goring, Act IV
An Ideal Husband (1895)
Oscar Wilde book Poems
"Hélas" (1881)
Poems (1881)
As quoted in The New-York Herald (12 August 1883) http://www.oscarwildeinamerica.org/quotations/fame-and-obscurity.html
“Sooner or later we have all to pay for what we do.”
Mrs Chevely, Act I
An Ideal Husband (1895)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891) <br class="br">Source: Wilde, Oscar, (1891 / 1912) The Soul of Man Under Socialism, London, Arthur L. Humphreys. Retrieved from University of California Libraries Archive.org https://archive.org 13 February 2018 https://archive.org/details/soulofmanunderso00wildiala
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891) <br class="br">Source: Wilde, Oscar, (1891 / 1912) The Soul of Man Under Socialism, London, Arthur L. Humphreys. Retrieved from University of California Libraries Archive.org https://archive.org 13 February 2018 https://archive.org/details/soulofmanunderso00wildiala
Oscar Wilde book The Happy Prince and Other Tales
"The Nightingale and the Rose"
The Happy Prince and Other Tales (1888)
“Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are.”
Mrs. Cheveley, Act III
An Ideal Husband (1895)
“Really, if the lower orders don't set us a good example, what on earth is the use of them?”
Oscar Wilde The Importance of Being Earnest
Algernon, Act I
The Importance of Being Earnest (1895)
“Now don't stir. I'll be back in five minutes. And don't fall into any temptations while I am away.”
Miss Mabel Chiltern to Lord Goring, just after accepting his proposal, Act IV
An Ideal Husband (1895)
“Heaven is a despotism. I shall be at home there.”
Oscar Wilde Vera; or, The Nihilists
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism
The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
“I am always astonishing myself. It is the only thing that makes life worth living.”
Oscar Wilde A Woman of No Importance
Lord Illingworth, Act III
A Woman of No Importance (1893)
“Fool, nothing is impossible in Russia but reform.”
Oscar Wilde Vera; or, The Nihilists
Michael, Act I
Vera; or, The Nihilists (1880)
“If one tells the truth, one is sure, sooner or later, to be found out.”
Oscar Wilde book Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young
Phrases and Philosophies for the Use of the Young (1894)