What Men Still Don't Know About Transforming Their Relationships, pp. 194–198
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
Famous Herb Goldberg Quotes
The Cardboard Goliath, p. 8
The New Male (1979)
He and His Changes, pp. 188–189
The New Male (1979)
Earth Mothers in Disguise, p. 149
The Inner Male (1987)
In Harness: The Male Condition, pp. 6–7
The Hazards of Being Male (1976)
"A Woman" Is an Abstraction, p. 51
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
Herb Goldberg Quotes about men
After all those years of being naturally sensitive and gentle, and now I've got to turn myself inside out just to appear sexy. It's fun and it's nice, but I do wish I could just be myself again.</p></blockquote>
Who Is the Victim? Who Is the Oppressor?, pp. 165–166
The New Male (1979)
The Personal Journey of Masculinity: From Externalization to Disconnection to Oblivion, pp. 10–11
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
Why men and women can't talk to each other: the hidden unconscious messages of gender, pp. 39–40
The Inner Male (1987)
Why Women Are Also Incapable of Intimacy, pp. 120–121
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
The Liberation Crunch: Getting the Worst of Both Worlds, p. 161
The New Male (1979)
He and His Changes, p. 244
The New Male (1979)
Herb Goldberg Quotes
Then, finally, the disturbing conclusion: "The good ones are all taken, only the undesirable or 'sick' ones are left."</p>
Sexual excitement and distance: sex is not sex, is sex, is not sex, p. 110
The Inner Male (1987)
Shared Struggles/Polarized Realities, pp. 177–178
What Men Really Want (1991)
The "Secrets" of Success, pp. 41–42
The New Male (1979)
The Personal Journey of Masculinity: From Externalization to Disconnection to Oblivion, pp. 27–28
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
The "Secrets" of Success, p. 43
The New Male (1979)
We can send a man to the moon but we still can't handle relationships: exploring a misleading cliche, pp. 269–270
The Inner Male (1987)
Introduction, p. 1
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
The Liberation Crunch: Getting the Worst of Both Worlds, pp. 146–147
The New Male (1979)
The Personal Journey of Masculinity: From Externalization to Disconnection to Oblivion, p. 9
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)
Specifically, as gender polarization in a relationship decreases, the experience of it improves. Without that rebalancing, even the most perfect content will unravel increasingly. Once the process is balanced, the magic of having ideal content is no longer necessary. The rebalancing process which creates a relationship free of polarizing gender defenses is clearly difficult and threatening initially in the same way that giving up an addiction seems to be. Once achieved however, a relationship free of distortion, false illusions, resentment, and hopelessness truly becomes possible.
What Men Still Don't Know About Transforming Their Relationships, pp. 194–198
What Men Still Don't Know About Women, Relationships, and Love (2007)