“LOVE of others is the appreciation of one's self.

MAY your egotism be so gigantic that you comprise mankind in your self-sympathy.”

—  Mina Loy

Source: The Lost Lunar Baedeker: Poems of Mina Loy

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Futurist poet and actress 1882–1966

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