“No blame, no
reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you
understand, and you show that you understand, you can
love, and the situation will change.”

“It is not praised if you are the only one to understand what you speak
interesting is the situation when you speak and the others understand.”

“If you understand, things are just as they are. If you do not understand, things are just as they are.”

“Know the qualities in each one's heart and then serve him. But first, try to know your own heart. Only then can you understand the hearts of others. If you have that understanding, then whatever words you speak and whatever duty you perform will be true duty, God's everlasting duty. If you are in that state, the love you give to each one will be God's complete love. In every situation, perform your duty with this understanding.”

“The test of learning psychology is whether your understanding of situations you encounter has changed, not whether you have learned a new fact.”

“If you want understand how a woman loves you just have to listen her words backwards. If you want to understand how a man loves, when he talks about love you must close your ears.”

“You can’t change what you don’t understand.”

“Confidence is a feeling you get when you don't REALLY understand the situation.”

“Someone had to be blamed. Someone had to die. (…) What you can't understand, you destroy.”

“When I understand myself, I understand you, and out of that understanding comes love.”