“We don’t even ask happiness, just a little less pain.”

— Charles Bukowski

The quote "We don’t even ask happiness, just a little less pain." is famous quote by Charles Bukowski (1920–1994), American writer.

Variant: We don't even ask for happiness, just a little less pain.
Source: From a letter to William Packard from 1985 (published in Reach for the Sun - the 3rd volume of Bukowski correspondence)
Context: Sex, love, duty, God, family are not to be bargained with against happiness, and we don’t even ask happiness, just a little less pain.

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