“Learning to politely say “no” is not an act of selfishness or rejection towards others, but an important skill to improve the quality of your life.”

—  Prevale

Original: Imparare a dire educatamente di "no" non è un atto di egoismo o di rifiuto verso gli altri, ma un'abilità importante per migliorare la qualità della propria vita.
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