“The women’s movement warned every girl how marriage can seduce her to make a sacrifice of her career. But no one warned every boy how marriage can seduce him to make a sacrifice in his career.”

Source: The Boy Crisis (2018), pp. 57

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author, spokesperson, expert witness, political candidate 1943

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