"Marriage Is Belonging" in Collected Essays and Occasional Writings (1973)
“Where there is marriage without love, there will be love without marriage.”
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Joseph Campbell (ed. Robert Walter and Phil Cousineau) The Hero’s Journey (Novato: New World Library, [1990] 2003) p. 104.
Criticism

Variant: Before marriage, a girl has to make love to a man to hold him. After marriage, she has to hold him to make love to him.

“Marriage… is not a love affair; it is an ordeal. (92)”
Source: Thou Art That: Transforming Religious Metaphor