“And friends and relatives disperse,
And are not stirred.”

—  Djuna Barnes

From Third Avenue On
The Book of Repulsive Women (1915)
Context: Somewhere beneath her hurried curse,
A corpse lies bounding in a hearse;
And friends and relatives disperse,
And are not stirred.

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American Modernist writer, poet and artist 1892–1982

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