“Bomanz sighed. A man couldn’t get five minutes alone. What the hell did he get married for? Why did any man? You spent the rest of your life doing hard time, doing what other people wanted, not what you wanted.”
Source: The White Rose (1985), Chapter 10, “Bomanz’s Story” (p. 491)
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“The best way to get people to do what you want is not to be too particular about what you want.”
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Vectors: Aphorisms and Ten Second Essays (2001)

“Motivation is the art of getting people to do what you want them to do because they want to do it.”


Variant: A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and gets to bed at night, and in between he does what he wants to do.

The trial of Charles B. Reynolds for blasphemy (1887)
Funeral in Berlin (1964; repr. Harmondsworth: Penguin, 1966) pp. 144-5
Described there as a joke current in 1960s Czechoslovakia