“We read of strong men bowed down with woe, weeping as women weep, turning homewards in the hear-sickness of unavailing search, or with a certainty worse than suspense.”
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Canto XXXIII, lines 94–96 (tr. Longfellow).
The Divine Comedy (c. 1308–1321), Inferno

While My Guitar Gently Weeps (1968)
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“816. Women laugh when they can and weepe when they will.”
Jacula Prudentum (1651)

“Suspense is worse than disappointment.”
Letter to Thomas Sloan, (1 September 1791)

“There must be those among whom we can sit down and weep and still be counted as warriors.”
“The heart bowed down by weight of woe
To weakest hope will cling.”
The Bohemian Girl (1843), set to music by Michael William Balfe.