“It is wise to apply the oil of refined politeness to the mechanisms of friendship.”

—  Colette

Source: Le Pur et l'Impur (The Pure and the Impure) (1932), Ch. 9

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1873-1954 French novelist: wrote Gigi 1873–1954

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