“3395. Men hate those they have hurt.”
Introductio ad prudentiam: Part II (1727), Gnomologia (1732)
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Variant: I think the hardest thing in life is to forgive. Hate is self destructive. If you hate somebody, you're not hurting the person you hate, you're hurting yourself. It's healing, actually, it's real healing...
Forgiveness.

"A Letter To My Fellow Countrymen", Tribune (18 August 1961)

“Those nuts that burn their bras and walk around all disheveled and hate men? They’re crazy. Crazy.”
Fallaci interview (1973)

IV, 3
Variant translation: The good man, though a slave, is free; the wicked, though he reigns, is a slave, and not the slave of a single man, but — what is worse — the slave of as many masters as he has vices.
The City of God (early 400s)
Context: The dominion of bad men is hurtful chiefly to themselves who rule, for they destroy their own souls by greater license in wickedness; while those who are put under them in service are not hurt except by their own iniquity. For to the just all the evils imposed on them by unjust rulers are not the punishment of crime, but the test of virtue. Therefore the good man, although he is a slave, is free; but the bad man, even if he reigns, is a slave, and that not of one man, but, what is far more grievous, of as many masters as he has vices; of which vices when the divine Scripture treats, it says, “For of whom any man is overcome, to the same he is also the bond-slave.”

Source: The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here for?

Response to State of the Union speech (20 January 2004) http://www.clark04.com/press/release/197/