“With some people solitariness is an escape not from others but from themselves. For they see in the eyes of others only a reflection of themselves.”

—  Eric Hoffer

Section 211
The Passionate State Of Mind, and Other Aphorisms (1955)

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American philosopher 1898–1983

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