“Never give your enemies any more reason than they already have to go on hating you.”

—  Carl Hayden

Johnson, James W. (2002). Arizona Politicians: The Noble and the Notorious, illustrations by David `Fitz' Fitzsimmons, Tucson: University of Arizona Press. pp 149-150. ISBN 0-8165-2203-0.

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American federal politician 1877–1972

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