“I guess what it means is this: to be human is to be fragile. We are easily hurt, and not just physically. We are easily hurt emotionally, too. So, as you move through life, my son, try not to hurt others.”

—  Robert J. Sawyer, book Calculating God

Source: Calculating God (2000), Chapter 21 (p. 204)

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