“What becomes of a man who acquires a beautiful woman, with her 'beauty' his sole target? He sabotages himself. He has gained no friend, no ally, no mutual trust: She knows quite well why she has been chosen. He has succeeded in buying a mutually suspicious set of insecurities. He does gain something: the esteem of other men who find such an acquisition impressive.”

— Naomi Wolf , book The Beauty Myth

Source: The Beauty Myth (1991), Chapter 5 : 'Sex', p. 174

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