“Isn’t that what it means to be civilized? That you can wait to get what you want?”
Source: Ender's Shadow
In late January 2016, as quoted in "The Obama Doctrine" by Jeffrey Goldberg, in The Atlantic (April 2016) http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2016/04/the-obama-doctrine/471525/
2016
“Isn’t that what it means to be civilized? That you can wait to get what you want?”
Source: Ender's Shadow
“Happiness isn't wanting what you can get, but wanting what you have.”
Source: The Judgment
"It's not about dying", TEDxCHUV address (13 November 2014) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5WYNf1td-4
“If you want peace, you won't get it with violence.”
“The end is what you want and the means is how you get it.”
Source: Rules for Radicals: A Practical Primer for Realistic Radicals (1971), p. 24
“You never got what you wanted; you just learned to get by without it.”
Source: Everything I Never Told You
On how he wants to be perceived as a writer in “Édouard Louis: 'I want to be a writer of violence. The more you talk about it, the more you can undo it'” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2018/jun/09/edouard-louis-i-want-to-be-a-writer-of-violence-the-more-you-talk-about-it-the-more-you-can-undo-it in The Guardian (2018 Jun 9)