“When you think of the number of men in the world who hate each other, why, when two men love each other, does the church split?”

—  Tony Benn

On the same-sex marriage controversy in the Church of England.
"Tony Benn: The glorious revolutionary" http://www.journal-online.co.uk/article/3082-tony-benn-the-glorious-revolutionary, The Journal (26 March 2008).
2000s

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