“When discussing things with someone, it is best to speak appropriately about whatever the subject may be. No matter how good what you are saying might be, it will dampen the conversation if it is irrelevant.”

—  Tsunetomo Yamamoto , book Hagakure

Hagakure (c. 1716)

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