“It is desperately hard these days for an average child to grow up to be a man, for our present organized system does not want men. They are not safe.”

—  Paul Goodman , book Growing Up Absurd

Source: Growing Up Absurd (1956), p. 14.

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American novelist, playwright, poet and psychotherapist 1911–1972

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