“We always condemn ourselves by what we say, not by what we do.”

— Javier Marías

Nos condenamos siempre por lo que decimos, no por lo que hacemos.
Source: Todas las Almas [All Souls] (1989), p. 31

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Nos condenamos siempre por lo que decimos, no por lo que hacemos

Todas las Almas (1989)
Variant: Nos condenamos siempre por lo que decimos, no por lo que hacemos.

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Spanish writer 1951

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