“You have to look at what you have right in front of you, at what it could be, and stop measuring it against what you've lost. I know this to be wise and true, just as I know that pretty much no one can do it.”

Letter to Oskar Pollak (8 November 1903); cited from Briefe, 1902-1924 (1958) edited by [Max Brod]], p. 27<!-- New York: Schocken --> ; translation from Franz Kafka, Representative Man (1991) by Frederick R. Karl, p. 98 <!-- New York: Ticknor & Fields -->
Context: We are as forlorn as children lost in the woods. When you stand in front of me and look at me, what do you know of the griefs that are in me and what do I know of yours? And if I were to cast myself down before you and weep and tell you, what more would you know about me than you know about Hell when someone tells you it is hot and dreadful? For that reason alone we human beings ought to stand before one another as reverently, as reflectively, as lovingly, as we would before the entrance to Hell.

Qué te he dado, lo sé. Qué has recibido, no lo sé.
Voces (1943)

Source: The Wedding

Source: City of Lost Souls

Source: Diary

HitFix Interview: 'Harper's Island's' deceased Single Girl and Stepmother speak Amber Borycki and Claudette Mink discuss their recent 'Harper's Island' demise https://web.archive.org/web/20090618163737/http://www.hitfix.com/articles/2009-6-16-hitfix-interview-harper-s-island-s-deceased-single-girl-and-stepmother-speak (June 18, 2009)

Hello.
Song lyrics, Can't Slow Down (1983)