“Hate hurts the hater more'n the hated.”
Madeleine L'Engle (1918–2007) American writer
Introductio ad prudentiam: Part II (1727), Gnomologia (1732)
“Hate hurts the hater more'n the hated.”
Madeleine L'Engle (1918–2007) American writer
Louis Zamperini (1917–2014) Italian-American middle distance runner
Variant: I think the hardest thing in life is to forgive. Hate is self destructive. If you hate somebody, you're not hurting the person you hate, you're hurting yourself. It's healing, actually, it's real healing...
Forgiveness.
John Osborne (1929–1994) English playwright
"A Letter To My Fellow Countrymen", Tribune (18 August 1961)
“Those nuts that burn their bras and walk around all disheveled and hate men? They’re crazy. Crazy.”
Golda Meir (1898–1978) former prime minister of Israel
Fallaci interview (1973)
Aurelius Augustinus book The City of God
IV, 3
Variant translation: The good man, though a slave, is free; the wicked, though he reigns, is a slave, and not the slave of a single man, but — what is worse — the slave of as many masters as he has vices.
The City of God (early 400s)
Context: The dominion of bad men is hurtful chiefly to themselves who rule, for they destroy their own souls by greater license in wickedness; while those who are put under them in service are not hurt except by their own iniquity. For to the just all the evils imposed on them by unjust rulers are not the punishment of crime, but the test of virtue. Therefore the good man, although he is a slave, is free; but the bad man, even if he reigns, is a slave, and that not of one man, but, what is far more grievous, of as many masters as he has vices; of which vices when the divine Scripture treats, it says, “For of whom any man is overcome, to the same he is also the bond-slave.”
Rick Warren (1954) Christian religious leader
Source: The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here for?
“Those who hurt others will also hurt themselves.”
Natsuki Takaya (1973) Manga artist
Wesley Clark (1944) American general and former Democratic Party presidential candidate
Response to State of the Union speech (20 January 2004) http://www.clark04.com/press/release/197/