“That’s family for you. Can’t live with them, can’t murder them.”
Holly Black book Black Heart
Source: Black Heart
Source: The Chronoliths (2001), Chapter 18 (p. 224)
“That’s family for you. Can’t live with them, can’t murder them.”
Holly Black book Black Heart
Source: Black Heart
Seneca the Younger book Epistulae morales ad Lucilium
Epistulae Morales ad Lucilium (Moral Letters to Lucilius), Letter CI: On the Futility of Planning Ahead
“You can’t lead bunny lives and write tiger poetry.”
William Packard (1933–2002) American writer
From the book Art of Poetry Writing: A Guide For Poets, Students, & Readers https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/467125.Art_of_Poetry_Writing published by St. Martin's Press on June 15, 1992.
M. John Harrison book Light
Source: Light (2002), Chapter 4 “Operations of the Heart” (p. 29)
Rainer Maria Rilke book Letters to a Young Poet
Letter Four (16 July 1903)
Variant: Have patience with everything unresolved in your heart and to try to love the questions themselves as if they were locked rooms or books written in a very foreign language. Don't search for the answers, which could not be given to you now, because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps then, someday far in the future, you will gradually, without even noticing it, live your way into the answer. (Translation by Stephen Mitchell)
Letters to a Young Poet (1934)
Context: Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.
“You’re seventeen,” Magnus said. “You can’t have wasted a life you’ve barely lived.”
Cassandra Clare book Clockwork Prince
Source: Clockwork Prince
“… for nightinggales - we know - can’t live on fairytales.”
Leo Tolstoy book Anna Karenina
Source: Anna Karenina
“I can’t stop while there are lives to be saved.”
Edith Cavell (1865–1915) British nurse
As quoted in "Edith Cavell" by Helen Judson in The American Journal of Nursing (July 1941), p. 871