“It's the man who dares to take, who is independent, not he who gives.”
D.H. Lawrence (1885–1930) English novelist, poet, playwright, essayist, literary critic and painter
Letter to John Middleton Murry, 27 November 1913 http://books.google.com/books?id=NyudR_ePn8sC&q=%22It%27s+the+man+who+dares+to+take+who+is+independent+not+he+who+gives%22&pg=PA112#v=onepage