“When my brother… was a young boy learning the Chinese classics, I was in the habit of listening with him and I became unusually proficient at understanding those passages that he found too difficult to grasp and memorize. Father, a most learned man, was always regretting the fact: "Just my luck!" he would say. "What a pity she was not born a man!" But then I gradually realized that people were saying "It's bad enough when a man flaunts his Chinese learning; she will come to no good," and since then I have avoided writing the simplest [Chinese] character. My handwriting is appalling.”

— Murasaki Shikibu, book The Diary of Lady Murasaki

trans. Richard Bowring
The Diary of Lady Murasaki

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Japanese novelist, poet during the Heian period. best known… 973–1014

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