“It contributes greatly towards a man's moral and intellectual health, to be brought into habits of companionship with individuals unlike himself, who care little for his pursuits, and whose sphere and abilities he must go out of himself to appreciate.”

— Nathaniel Hawthorne , book The Scarlet Letter

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The Scarlet Letter (1850)

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American novelist and short story writer (1804 – 1879) 1804–1864

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