Source: East of Eden (1952)
Context: Maybe that's the reason," Adam said slowly, feeling his way. "Maybe if I had loved him I would have been jealous of him. You were. Maybe-maybe love makes you suspicious and doubting. Is it true that when you love a woman you are never sure-never sure of her because you aren't sure of yourself? I can see it pretty clearly. I can see how you loved him and what it did to you. I did not love him. Maybe he loved me. He tested me and hurt me and punished me and finally he sent me out like a sacrifice, maybe to make up for something. But he did not love you, and so he had faith in you. Maybe — why, maybe it's a kind of reverse.
“The fact that a woman you love reaches a point in the relationship where she ceases to love you, and despite that you can never bring yourself to scorn or despise her, is very rare indeed.”
Un chagrin de passage (1994, A Fleeting Sorrow, translated 1995)
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“If you love someone but rarely make yourself available to him or her, that is not true love.”
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“A woman never tells you why she loves; she just tells you how she loves.”
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“Still, that's the point of love; you love someone despite their flaws.”
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“To be in love is not the same as loving. You can be in love with a woman and still hate her.”
The Brothers Karamazov (1879–1880)
Catherine Deveney, "Stripped bare", http://living.scotsman.com/index.cfm?id=288312004 The Scotsman, (2004-03-14)
On her mother.