“If we commit ourselves to one person for life this is not, as many people think, a rejection of freedom; rather, it demands the courage to move into all the risks of freedom, and the risk of love which is permanent; into that love which is not possession but participation.”

— Madeleine L'Engle

The Crosswicks Journal, The Irrational Season (1977)

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