“Lima frightened him, it was too big, you could lose yourself in it and never find your way home; the people on the street were total strangers.”

— Mario Vargas Llosa , book The Time of the Hero

The Time of the Hero (1963)

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Peruvian writer, politician, journalist, and essayist 1936

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