“To be the object of desire is to be defined in the passive case.
To exist in the passive case is to die in the passive case – that is, to be killed.
This is the moral of the fairy tale about the perfect woman.”

—  Angela Carter

Source: The Sadeian Woman: And the Ideology of Pornography

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English novelist 1940–1992

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