Attributed to Monroe in self-help books and on social media, this quotation is of unknown origin and date.
Misattributed
Marilyn Monroe Quotes
“I have too many fantasies to be a housewife…. I guess I am a fantasy.”
Variant: I have too many fantasies to be a housewife. I guess I am a fantasy.
Source: Marilyn: Her Life In Own Words
“A career is wonderful, but you can't curl up with it on a cold night.”
Variant: A career is wonderful, but you can't curl up with it on a cold night.
Source: On Being Blonde (2007), p. 53
“A sex symbol becomes a thing. I hate being a thing.”
Comment on her sex symbol status, quoted in Ms. magazine (August 1972) p. 40
Context: That's the trouble, a sex symbol becomes a thing. But if I'm going to be a symbol of something, I'd rather it be sex than some of the things we've got symbols of... I just hate to be a thing.
Comment on fame, quoted in Marilyn Monroe: A Life of the Actress (1993) by Carl E. Rollyson, and in Symbolic Leaders: Public Dramas and Public Men (2006) by Orrin Edgar Klapp
Variant: People feel fame gives them some kind of privilege to walk up to you and say anything to you, of any kind of nature — and it won't hurt your feelings — like it's happening to your clothing.
As quoted in Ms. magazine (August 1972) p. 40
Context: When you're famous you kind of run into human nature in a raw kind of way. It stirs up envy, fame does. People you run into feel that, well, who does she think she is, Marilyn Monroe? They feel fame gives them some kind of privilege to walk up to you and say anything to you, of any kind of nature — and it won't hurt your feelings — like it's happening to your clothes not you.
Marilyn's personal diaries (1958), as quoted in Fragments (2010), by Stanley Buchthal and Bernard Comment
Context: Everyone's childhood plays itself out. No wonder no one knows the other or can completely understand. By this I don't know if I'm just giving up with this conclusion or resigning myself — or maybe for the first time connecting with reality. How do we know the pain or another's earlier years, let alone all that he drags with him since along the way at best a lot of leeway is needed for the other — yet how much is unhealthy for one to bear. I think to love bravely is the best and accept — as much as one can bear.
“she was a girl who knew how to be happy even when she was sad”
Variant: She was a girl who knew how to be happy even when she was sad. And that’s important—you know
As quoted in Marilyn Monroe : In Her Own Words (1983), edited by Roger Taylor
Context: Hollywood's a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss, and fifty cents for your soul. I know, because I turned down the first offer often enough and held out for the fifty cents.
“Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.”
As quoted in Marilyn Monroe : In Her Own Words (1983), edited by Roger Taylor
Variant: Husbands are chiefly good as lovers when they are betraying their wives.
“You might as well make yourself fly as to make yourself love.”
Source: My Story
Variant: People had a habit of looking at me as if I were some kind of mirror instead of a person. They didn't see me, they saw their own lewd thoughts, then they white-masked themselves by calling me the lewd one.
Source: On Being Blonde (2007), p. 54
“try to enjoy myself when I can - I'll be miserable enough as it is.”
Source: Fragments: Poems, Intimate Notes, Letters
Source: Fragments: Poems, Intimate Notes, Letters
“open your eyes^_^
and look within….
are you satisfied with the life,
…….. U are liVing?????????”
Source: Marilyn: Her Life in Her Own Words
“Fear is stupid, so are regrets.”
Source: Marilyn Monroe Quotes vol 1