Oromis
Source: Eldest (2005)
“We often forgive those who bore us, but we cannot forgive those whom we bore.”
Nous pardonnons souvent à ceux qui nous ennuient, mais nous ne pouvons pardonner à ceux que nous ennuyons.
Maxim 304.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)
Joyzelle, Act i, reported in Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919)
“Women see through and through each other; and often we most admire her whom they most scorn.”
Source: Notes of Thought (1883), p. 178
Un Art de Vivre (The Art of Living) (1939), The Art of Loving
“We always like those who admire us; we do not always like those whom we admire.”
Nous aimons toujours ceux qui nous admirent; et nous n'aimons pas toujours ceux que nous admirons.
Maxim 294.
Reflections; or Sentences and Moral Maxims (1665–1678)
Letter Eight (12 August 1904)
Letters to a Young Poet (1934)
1950s, What Desires Are Politically Important? (1950)
Context: We love those who hate our enemies, and if we had no enemies there would be very few people whom we should love.
All this, however, is only true so long as we are concerned solely with attitudes towards other human beings. You might regard the soil as your enemy because it yields reluctantly a niggardly subsistence. You might regard Mother Nature in general as your enemy, and envisage human life as a struggle to get the better of Mother Nature. If men viewed life in this way, cooperation of the whole human race would become easy. And men could easily be brought to view life in this way if schools, newspapers, and politicians devoted themselves to this end. But schools are out to teach patriotism; newspapers are out to stir up excitement; and politicians are out to get re-elected. None of the three, therefore, can do anything towards saving the human race from reciprocal suicide.
Source: Aphorisms and Reflections (1901), p. 117
