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Source: The Golden Notebook (1962) 
Context: It seems to me like this. It's not a terrible thing — I mean, it may be terrible, but it's not damaging, it's not poisoning, to do without something one really wants. It's not bad to say: My work is not what I really want, I'm capable of doing something bigger. Or I'm a person who needs love, and I'm doing without it. What's terrible is to pretend that the second-rate is the first-rate. To pretend that you don't need love when you do; or you like your work when you know quite well you're capable of better.
                                    
“You cannot be really first-rate at your work if your work is all you are.”
Source: A Short Guide to a Happy Life
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Variant: you want to double your success rate, triple your failure rate.
                                    
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