“A person is a person through other persons; you can't be human in isolation; you are human only in relationships.”

“In marriage you are not sacrificing yourself to the other person. You are sacrificing yourself to the relationship.”

“To build a secure relationship, caretake the insecurity and unsafety of the other person in the relationship. And recognize when you feel insecure or unsafe in your relationship so that you can very quickly initiate re-establishing security and safety with the other person.”

“If you want to make a difference, the next time you see someone being cruel to another human being, take it personally. Take it personally because it is personal!”

“You can love a person dear to you with a human love, but an enemy can only be loved with divine love.”

“A human being can be good or bad or right or wrong, maybe. But how can you say a person is illegal? You just can't. That's all there is to it.”

“A person isn't a bird. You can't cage a person.”

“Act in such a way that you treat humanity, whether in your own person or in the person of any other, never merely as a means to an end, but always at the same time as an end.”

“"You can't buy love with money." Only a poor person says that.”

“Another person's life is that person's life. You can't take responsibility.”