“Being a stranger was like being dead,
and brought to mind how, in a book he had read
that most folks misunderstood one common state:
The flip side of love is indifference, not hate.”

—  David Rakoff

Source: Love, Dishonor, Marry, Die, Cherish, Perish

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writer 1964–2012

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