“But the bottom line is that, as humans, we are by nature selfish creatures. The only way we care about anything, really, is by making it about us.”

—  Sarah Dessen , book The Moon and More

Source: The Moon and More

Last update June 3, 2021. History

Help us to complete the source, original and additional information

Do you have more details about the quote "But the bottom line is that, as humans, we are by nature selfish creatures. The only way we care about anything, really…" by Sarah Dessen?
Sarah Dessen photo
Sarah Dessen 511
American writer 1970

Related quotes

Daniel Salamanca photo

“We don't have to complain about human selfishness: everyone cares about us, and even our enemies would like to correct our defects.”

Daniel Salamanca (1863–1935) President of Bolivia (1863-1935)

“Well, a lot of times we are looking for a sign that tells us we're godly. We want to preach, or be a missionary or whatever, all to help ourselves believe that God is using us. We look everywhere but to God to make us feel godly. We try to convince others we are godly so that we can convince ourselves we are godly. The bottom line is that godliness is about relationship, not about image”

Donald Miller (1971) American writer

Prayer and the Art of Volkswagen Maintenance (2000, Harvest House Publishers)

Mark Twain photo

“If we would learn what the human race really is at bottom, we need only observe it in election times.”

Mark Twain (1835–1910) American author and humorist
Jeremy Jackson (scientist) photo

“The thing we really need to fix is ourselves. It's not about the fish; it's not about the pollution; it's not about the climate change. It's about us and our greed and our need for growth and our inability to imagine a world that is different from the selfish world we live in today. So the question is: Will we respond to this or not? I would say that the future of life and the dignity of human beings depends on our doing that.”

Jeremy Jackson (scientist) (1942) American marine biologist

Source: How we wrecked the ocean https://www.ted.com/talks/jeremy_jackson_how_we_wrecked_the_ocean (April 2010)

Oscar Wilde photo

“The only thing that one really knows about human nature is that it changes.”

Oscar Wilde book The Soul of Man under Socialism

The Soul of Man Under Socialism (1891)
Context: The only thing that one really knows about human nature is that it changes. Change is the one quality we can predicate of it. The systems that fail are those that rely on the permanency of human nature, and not on its growth and development. The error of Louis XIV was that he thought human nature would always be the same. The result of his error was the French Revolution. It was an admirable result. All the results of the mistakes of governments are quite admirable.

Teal Swan photo

“The most common reason that relationships fall apart is because of safety. On a subconscious level, even though our relationships grant us a sense of safety, if we perceive that something about a relationship makes us unsafe, we care more about our own safety than we care about the other person’s experience and we care more about our own safety than we care about the health of the relationship itself.”

Teal Swan (1984) American spiritual teacher
Arthur Schopenhauer photo

“The charlatan takes very different shapes according to circumstances; but at bottom he is a man who cares nothing about knowledge for its own sake, and only strives to gain the semblance of it that he may use it for his own personal ends, which are always selfish and material.”

Arthur Schopenhauer book Parerga and Paralipomena

“Similes, Parables and Fables” Parerga and Paralipomena, vol. 2, § 394
Parerga and Paralipomena (1851)

Ben Carson photo

“You know Obamacare is really I think the worst thing that has happened in this nation since slavery, and it is in a way, it is slavery in a way, because it is making all of us subservient to the government, and it was never about health care. It was about control.”

Ben Carson (1951) 17th and current United States Secretary of Housing and Urban Development; American neurosurgeon

As quoted in "Ben Carson: Obamacare worst thing ‘since slavery’" https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/post-politics/wp/2013/10/11/ben-carson-obamacare-worst-thing-since-slavery/, Washington Post (October 11, 2013)

Genesis P-Orridge photo

“The bottom line is that the human species has to realize the human body really is just a cheap suitcase.”

Genesis P-Orridge (1950) British musician and writer

As quoted in Believer Magazine http://www.believermag.com/exclusives/?read=interview_p-orridge_rushkoff "Douglas Rushkoff in conversation with Genesis Breyer P-Orridge”.

Related topics