“Possibly. Basically, everything that happens in our life is our fault and ours alone. A lot of people go through the same difficulties we went through, and they react completely differently. We looked for the easiest way out: a separate reality.”

—  Paulo Coelho

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Brazilian lyricist and novelist 1947

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