“What we possess is ephemeral and material: it defines us only in the eyes of others. What we give is eternal and immaterial: it defines our true inner worth.”

—  Prevale

Original: Ciò che possediamo è effimero e materiale: ci definisce solo agli occhi degli altri. Ciò che doniamo è eterno e immateriale: definisce il nostro vero valore interiore.
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