“The laughter knows the depth of his own sorrows but never tears.”
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“When it comes to death, we know that laughter and tears are pretty much the same thing.”
Source: The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian

“The source of all humor is not laughter, but sorrow.”
Variant: The secret source of humor is not joy but sorrow; there is no humor in heaven.

Source: A Heap o' Livin' (1916), A Song, opening lines, p. 34.

New York Times Magazine (7 December 1958).
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As quoted by Cicero, Tusculan Disputations, iii. 26