“A memoir for me means a person’s life story; if I was going to write my actual life story, I would condense this entire marriage into a footnote.”
On her book When I Hit You in “Meena Kandasamy: ‘If I was going to write my life story, I would condense that marriage to a footnote’” https://www.theguardian.com/books/2019/nov/25/meena-kandasamy-interview-exquisite-cadavers in The Guardian (2019 Nov 25)
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“Now that I've let go of my story, I can let go of my life.”
As quoted in her obituary in The Guardian (14 February 2002) http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/2002/feb/14/guardianobituaries.humanities.

Original: (it) Se c'è una sola persona che ha il diritto di scrivere la storia della tua vita, quella persona sei tu: scrivila prepotentemente.
Source: prevale.net
On not caring about what other people think about her writing in “An Interview with Amulya Malladi” http://jaggerylit.com/an-interview-with-amulya-malladi/ in Jaggery

Interview in Writers at Work: The Paris Review Interviews (1988)

“I suppose being right will have to compensate me for being poor—the story of my life, I fear.”
Source: Tigana (1990), Chapter 1 (p. 14)

“I'm working on my own life story. I don't mean I'm putting it together; no, I'm taking it apart.”
Source: The Tent (2006)