“On our earth we can only love with suffering and through suffering.”

—  Fyodor Dostoyevsky , book The Dream of a Ridiculous Man

Source: The Dream of a Ridiculous Man (1877), III
Context: On our earth we can only love with suffering and through suffering. We cannot love otherwise, and we know of no other sort of love. I want suffering in order to love. I long, I thirst, this very instant, to kiss with tears the earth that I have left, and I don't want, I won't accept life on any other!

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