“We do not handle suffering. Suffering handles us.”
Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest
Source: Adam's Return: The Five Promises of Male Initiation
The Pageant of Life (1964), On Suffering
“We do not handle suffering. Suffering handles us.”
Richard Rohr (1943) American spiritual writer, speaker, teacher, Catholic Franciscan priest
Source: Adam's Return: The Five Promises of Male Initiation
Woody Allen (1935) American screenwriter, director, actor, comedian, author, playwright, and musician
Love and Death (1975)
“On our earth we can only love with suffering and through suffering.”
Fyodor Dostoyevsky book The Dream of a Ridiculous Man
Source: The Dream of a Ridiculous Man (1877), III
Context: On our earth we can only love with suffering and through suffering. We cannot love otherwise, and we know of no other sort of love. I want suffering in order to love. I long, I thirst, this very instant, to kiss with tears the earth that I have left, and I don't want, I won't accept life on any other!
He Who Lets Us Be: A Theology of Love (1975), p. 4
Cesare Pavese (1908–1950) Italian poet, novelist, literary critic, and translator
This Business of Living (1935-1950)
“…we learn resignation not by our own suffering, but by the suffering of others.”
W. Somerset Maugham book The Summing Up
Source: The Summing Up (1938), p. 64
“Suffering makes us human. A person without suffering is just grass.”
Vasil Bykaŭ (1924–2003) Belarusian writer
Васіль Быкаў. Трэцяя ракета http://rv-blr.com/literature/charter/11223 // rv-blr.com (in Belarusian)
“the pain we suffer is a way to make us appreciate what comes next.”
Mitch Albom (1958) American author
Source: The First Phone Call from Heaven